my own bollox...tantra lolly

"Like everyone else who uses the word Tantra/tanric I do so to make my business more successful, to make more money,...to wish me luck on my sacred journey. At the end of the day I am more taoist, than tantric. Taoism is about keeping things simple, about facilitating rather than leading. Tantra, on the other hand can be very compicated, and very fucking commercial..  Seb Cox.

I started to study Tantra about four years ago. When I say study I mean I bought a few books done quite alot of research on the internet and also attended workshops in London and Amsterdam. It changed me. I am different to the extent that I am more connected to my soul and hole, my manhole..In Tantra you learn to not just suppress or deny the ejaculation but to transform the ejaculatory orgasm into what might be called 'inejaculation' making the process into an intense orgasmic / spiritual experience. And that's the problem I have with Tantra. I started to hide behind this philosophy. I would talk about not cumming for weeks and how I was Master of my own sexuality. Even though I thought many of the books I had bought and read were basically full of crap and that whoever wrote them would have been better of having sex than writting about it, I still continued to buy more. They looked impressive on my newly growing collection of books that was placed in my sitting room for everyone to see. And as I learned I sold. It was very good for business, and my tantric experience certainly attracted sexier clients and bigger fatter cocks. ..but I was so tantrically up my own arse I did not realise that at last I was selling what I wanted sexually myself. I was so tantrically up my own arse that often after the client had left I would wank for hours about how sexy the client was and how tantric of me not to put that lovely fat cock in my mouth. Tantric?,...Tantric my arse.

Tantra is not about sex......it is about sacred perception. The central teaching of Tantra is that everything is an illusion, that we see things through our own eyes only. Someone else can look at excatly the same thing and see it differently. Tantrika (people who practise Tantra) see everything as sacred. It destroys concepts like that a church is more holy than a bathroom. Everywhere is holy.  And therefore all things are "God" (Brahman). You must  take control and responsibility within your life. Your sexuality is sacred. . Your sexuality is yours. If you want to fuck everyone you meet -- do it. But don't make excuses, and don't say it's for spiritual reasons. Do it. If you don't want to do that, and you want to be more restrained -- do that -- and don't allow your sexuality to control you. Your cock is not in power. Your heart and mind and soul are.

My Tantra studies have allowed me to accept that I am a good man, that I am an excellent "Erotic Masseur". And that smoking a spliff before sex is sacred. Despite what the new-age Tantrikas  have to say I also now believe that if I feel like putting a nice cock in my mouth and wanking myself till I squirt my delicious spunk all over me and massaging it  into my beautiful body that that is not ok, no, it's fucking fantastic. It's in fact...sacred. It's been quite a long journey but it has also taught me how to have a huge orgasm, how to really squirt my beautiful spunk. And because I have such powerful orgasms thats also very good for the health of my prostate. So long may I continue to spunk all over my mind, body and spirit. Long may I continue to use my sacred spunk to connect my mind to my spirit and my spirit to my hole and sole.

Many New-Age Tantrikas are of the belief that only through Male/Female sex could one practice Tantra. Maybe they are right. So let the hetrosexual NEW AGE TANTRIKAS of this world get on with  'inejaculation' and in the mean time leave us MEN to get on with spunking our yummi, yummi spunk all over the fucking sacred place.

I probably see things in a slightly different light than most. I was a prostitute for many years. One day I learned a very basic understanding of Tantra Massage from one of my client's sessions. So the next day it was on the agenda,...i was selling it. I think it was the first time that a male prostitute every used the word in an advertisement in a gay magazine. Yes of course i am a tantric charlatan, a tantric charlatan that did not cumm at one stage for 4 months, but just like using the "word" the basic philosophy of it made me more and more money.

Many years later i probably know abit more about Tantra than i did then, the only differnce being that now there are many male prostitutes that use the "word", next they will be using the basic philosophy. Butt I have moved on, I am discovering my own philosophy. Soon I'll be listening to <my own bollox>, 

I'm older than you, this is wisdom talking. 

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